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Posted on Aug 16, 2017 in dating, Uncategorized

How to deal with fertility issue on couples

My husband and I are having problems getting pregnant. I want to spend some of our spare cash on fertility treatment, but my husband won’t go for fertility treatment. He says that the clinics are just trying to make money out of other people’s misfortune, something he read on Debden escorts. I know it is a bit of a process but I don’t agree with him. The good quality clinics have helped many people become parents and I think it is worth a try. Personally I would rather have a baby then just leaving {all of our money in the bank. I also think that my husband feel a bit embarrassed about having to go for fertility treatment but so many people have to go these days, so it is nothing to be embarrassed about. If you end up with a lovely baby, it will all have been worth and I am sure most people would feel the same way.

My husband won’t go for fertility treatment because he thinks it is a huge great big gamble. Some of our friends from Deptford escorts have been to fertility clinics and have not been successful. It must be heart breaking but if you end up with a baby it is worth every penny you spend on the treatment. If you don’t, I think that you need to learn to live with the consequences and perhaps even consider other options such as adoption. That would be an acceptable alternative to me and I am sure make certain my husband would be okay about it as well.

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Adoption is a fantastic idea but first of all I would like to have my own baby. It would be so nice to have a little something which you could truly call your own and be your off-spring. We have been trying for over a year now, but nothing is happening. The NHS say that everything is normal but I am not so sure. It would be nice to be able to go to a private specialist and see what they say. They may have a range of different treatments and perhaps even a new approach.

I am 29 years old and my husband is 33, I would have thought that after a year of trying, we should have been able to get pregnant. If there isn’t anything wrong with us, why isn’t it happening? Our doctor says that I should give it another year and if nothing happens then, go to a specialist hospital. But, I don’t want to wait that long. I have achieved everything that I want to achieve and need to take a career break. Having a baby is really important and more than anything I want the experience of being a mum. I am beginning to doubt if my husband wants to be a father.

I think that a marriage is a lot better relationship with a baby, it sort of completes the family unit. A couple is just a couple at the end of the day, and despite what people say you are not a family. It is important to be a family and I think my husband will realize that when baby comes along. He is worried that baby is not going to happen and we will both end up being hurt. I think that we will be more frustrated if we don’t give it a try.